Tuesday, June 9, 2015
San Andreas Adoption Movie Review
Ray Gaines is used to keeping a cool head in crisis. As a
former military rescue pilot, and now working for Los Angeles County as a
helicopter rescue pilot, he regularly saves people from peril. His home life is
painful, though. He is estranged from his wife, Emma, who has just started
dating multimillionaire Daniel. His daughter, Blake, lives with Emma and is
getting ready to leave for San Francisco. While Blake is in San Francisco with
Daniel, the San Andreas Fault sets off a series of earthquakes, one of which is
the strongest earthquake ever recorded. California is thrown into disaster.
Around the same time, Blake is abandoned by Daniel. Hundreds of miles away from
her parents, Blake tries to survive while her parents try to reach her.
The Adoption Connection
San Andreas is a disaster movie and not an adoption story,
but here’s where I see some connection. Blake is not able to live with both of
her parents. Although she does continue to live with her mom, she is also
living with Daniel, a new potential father figure. When crisis hits, though, Daniel
abandons her, and she must wait for her real parents to save her. It would be
very possible for young viewers to come away from San Andreas with the
unhelpful impression that your “real” parents are the only ones who love you,
and new parents will just abandon you.
Strong Points
This movie highlights bravery and parental love. One of my
heroes, Mr. Rogers, said that, in times of disaster you will see some people
running towards the danger to help. To him, it was encouraging to see that
people can be brave, courageous, and selfless. Ray is one of those people.
Challenges
*Spoiler alert* It seems like Blake’s parents will get back
together. They have fallen back in love as a result of working together to save
her. She couldn’t live with both of her “real” parents until her “fake” parent
abandoned her, bringing her “real” parents back together. I can imagine some
kids in foster or adoptive families having fantasies along these lines, and I’m
not sure that it’d be helpful to present a film where that’s what happens.
*Spoiler alert* Ray and Emma’s split stems from the fact
that their other daughter died when she was drowned under Ray’s watch. He is
upset at himself because, although he saves people for a living, he was not
able to save his daughter. Later, he almost watches Blake drown before his
eyes, and for several tense minutes he works to resuscitate her. Although she
does survive, at one point it seems as though she has died, and Emma cries out,
“Oh, my baby!” Ray and Emma are finally able to talk over their feelings about
the loss of their daughter Mallory. Ray says, “I know you didn’t blame me. I
just didn’t know how to deal with Mallory’s death. It was my idea to take her
rafting that day. It’s different when it’s your own kid. The looks she had when
she realized I wasn’t going to be able to save her… It was harder coming home
to you (Emma). I should have let you in. I’m so sorry I didn’t.” This
powerfully captures how feelings of guilt can damage relationships even after a
traumatic event has happened (like aftershocks!). At the same time, though, this
theme, and a couple scenes in particular, could be very traumatic for young
kids and for parents who have lost their children.
We can be hurt by specific events, but also by our ongoing
feelings of guilt about those events. Processing our feelings helps us avoid
the ongoing damage of guilt and trauma – and that’s part of why therapy, or
crisis counseling, or crisis debriefings are so important.
It’s a disaster movie, so there are lots of
genre-appropriate screams, crashes, and scenes of peril. People die on screen. It’s what you expect
from this kind of movie, but the chaos could be triggering for kids who’ve
experienced and not yet processed real life chaos.
Weak Points
Someone makes a joke that suggests that people can’t be
family if they don’t look alike.
Recommendations
San Andreas will probably appeal to late teens and young
adults. It does offer a way for parents to talk with teens about how losses
impact our lives. The scenes of disaster that you’d expect from a movie like
this make it a poor choice for many younger viewers, especially those who’ve
experienced chaos or violence, and it might also be a painful movie for parents
who have lost children.
Questions for
Discussion
What’s the healthiest way you’ve ever dealt with a loss? The
least healthy? What made the difference?
Did Ray care for Blake more than Daniel because he was her
biological father, or just because of the kind of person he was?
How can we rebuild from trauma?
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This film surely had many unique effects. I would like to see a side by side view of the way it was film versus the last results. Very enjoyable and extremely entertaining movie. San Andreas Leather Jackets
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